So today we had mediation again. Following the last mediation that was two weeks ago. Mary was supposed to call a number to set up therapeutic visitation with Carter. Everyone showed up, and well it didn’t start off great to be honest. Mary said she wasn’t able to get a hold of anyone, and sheContinue reading “Agreement made!”
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4/14/22 Court Mediation
Court mediation is hard and time consuming. This one was scheduled at 11am. Which meant I couldn’t really go into work and by the time it would be over I couldn’t go in later either. Sometimes I get frustrated with this, right now I don’t have sick days. So if I don’t go in thenContinue reading “4/14/22 Court Mediation”
Mediation from Monday (3/21/22)
We had a scheduled mediation this past Monday. I’d love to have something exciting to share. Unfortunately, this is not the case. My lawyer, her lawyer, the mediator, and I all showed up. Mary was did not. Her lawyer informed us that he told her she had to be there, but that Mary said sheContinue reading “Mediation from Monday (3/21/22)”
Triggers
Carter and I woke up today. Had a great morning, laughing and joking around. He even spent some time using his Bible app, he had it reading to him. Then something innocent made a turn for our day. I began singing the song “I’m bringing home my baby bumblebee”. I don’t know why it cameContinue reading “Triggers”
Differences between Kinship Guardianship and Adoption
I get a lot of questions about Kinship Legal Guardianship (KLG) vs Adoption. This entry is to try and explain the pros and cons of both. KLG is custody of child you are related to or a legal relationship (i.e. step parent). This came about back in 2002, when a lot of relatives were providingContinue reading “Differences between Kinship Guardianship and Adoption”
A HUGE step in the right direction
I woke up so nervous today. I woke Carter up, and he said are you cooking a hot breakfast. I said that usually is the plan. He then said “Well today is such a stressful day, can I just have come cereal.” I agreed, knowing that usually he loves when I cook breakfast. Today wasContinue reading “A HUGE step in the right direction”
Anxious about the future…
It’s funny how you want something so badly and then you get it and anxiety starts. I think Carter and I are both feeling that right now. I found out yesterday that we have a case management hearing scheduled for February 10th. We have been waiting almost two months for a new court date, andContinue reading “Anxious about the future…”
Update on Adoption Stuff
So Mary’s lawyer had told my lawyer that he hasn’t talked to her that was yesterday. However, I guess they talked today. They came back and said she might be open to an open adoption where she can see Carter and call him. Carter had therapy today so we discussed it in therapy. The thingContinue reading “Update on Adoption Stuff”
Where it all began…
Our story starts really when Carter was born. He made me an Aunt, and it was such a gift. About 3 years ago, I gain custody of my nephew who was 12 at the time. This blog entry will tell you where we were and where we are now. It was the end of MayContinue reading “Where it all began…”